Arriving at an Incall Early

Jul 7, 2017

I recently checked out some reviews of an attractive escort on this very site and as luck would have it, I was able to schedule a meet with her later that afternoon.  Being that I like to be punctual, I took off a little earlier to beat the traffic.  Traffic however turned out to be a breeze and arrived at her 4 star hotel about 45 minutes early before my scheduled appointment.  After I parked my car across the street (didn't want to valet my ride at the hotel), I walked into the lobby of the hotel.  My dilemma  is what to do about the 45 minutes.  I for sure do not want to bother her before our scheduled time.  She could be cleaning up her space for me, or worse mid orgasm when the phone rings.  I don't want to walk aimlessly around the hotel like a little perv waiting for their turn.  So, I took a beeline to the bathroom to think about what I should do. 


The most obvious thing to do is to get a drink.  Most hotels have a bar and this 4 star hotel definitely had one.  An alcoholic beverage is good for the soul I am told.  If anything, it calms the nerves before any encounter. If you are anything like me, getting sweaty palms and the initial build-up before meeting the girl are such a rush for me.  The bar is also a great place for people watching.  Often times at these higher end bars, there are call girls just trolling around for johns.  So, if the one you are trying to see does not work out, you can go right back down and see if there is someone else that you like.  You will also get to see the merchandise ahead of time before making any ill-advised or advised moves. 


If drinking is not your thing, more than anything else, act like you belong there.  Do not go creeping around corners and looking at the ground.  Be confident in that you know where you are going.  And walk with some purpose.  If need be, just grab a newspaper, have a seat and read the darn thing for 20 minutes to pass the time. 


And lastly, if you have some true paranoia, the best thing to do with this spare time to check out the scene.  Go around the building and do some detective work.  Are there “LE” types in the vicinity, or suspicious looking people. Whatever will make you comfortable, you should go ahead and do it.  If you don't feel right about the situation at all or that pit in your stomach is speaking to you, just bail.  The girl may ban you from calling her again, but like Kanye said…There's a thousand yous, but only one of me.

Stay Safe Guys!


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cmchap :

I would sit in my car until time to go in

08-13-2017 17:50:29

horseback :

In my town, everybody is happy to do texting. I will text in advance if I'm early or late. I have received texts that they arrived early so I have the motivation to get there earlier if I am not. Most ladies will not give you the room number until you parked and they are ready. But I would stay away from the hotel to have a coffee or whatever. I would park in the next block and wait in the car for a short wait. Or I would stay in the hotel parking lot. Any hotel staff who is not new will know who's working and who's not, who have single male visitors every hour or every other hour going to the same floor or wing. Worse, the ladies may have helpers, sometimes helpful staff, to be their eyes and ears in the lobby for security. And that's what potential stalkers and trouble makers do. They arrive early to try to catch the look of the ladies arriving before they commit and to catch what type of clients are leaving. I would suggest Google Maps and Navigation. It can't be that far off unless there is a major accident and there's no detour.

07-26-2017 12:11:52

laneylixx :

Yes. I do recognize the compliment implied by the early arrival of one of my new friends. I would even go as far as to say that most early birds are truly just true gentleman that could not imagine being even a moment tardy, because it might be perceived as disrespect or laziness. Actually, over the past decade or so, I've cum up with a system to help prevent this from happening as much. I had to do something because despite any changes i make, early arrivals are just gonna happen, regardless. Unfortunately, the anxiety i experience immediately upon hearing a knock on my door or, especially, the shrill ring of my phone, anytime before our previously agreed upon time, just seems to make getting ready take just that much longer for me.

07-21-2017 19:45:11

benzgang206 :

Had it happen today. I got so mad I just told him to leave

07-17-2017 00:05:20

sabin81 :

Kitra & mike1955, sometimes it happens. No "john" wants to get there early either. It's awkward for everyone! Traffic is traffic, an unpredictable beast at the best of rush hours. The author gives a good few tidbits of advice. I know you worry about people setting off "heat" before it's time to start the show, and that's a perfectly understandable concern, but every man (or woman, or whatever) is nervous before an encounter. You ladies are precious. Out society tells us what you provide, what we need is wrong, therefore we and you are wrong. What's a client to do? Sit in a car? No, they'd end up dead from the heat or stinky from the sweat. No one wants a stinky John. Our time before is weird. Pent of sex and release. Government says NO! Society says we're EVIL! But needs must be met. Releases expunged. Flesh, warmth, contact must be embraced. We need to be in your arms, to feel we are needed, maybe even loved. Forgive or early arrivals, ladies (or men). We do it not as an act of dominance or "snooping" but as an act of forbearance, an act of excitement. We are so excited to see you! Sometimes traffic, society plays different. The cards which say we musn't lay on the table and say 'Okay'." What's a man (or whatever) to do when flesh says one thing and society says another and TIME (god of all) says NOW? A man (or whatever) must wait. He needs you. He wants you. He acts out not for nefarious reasons but of stupid innocence. He craves you but, TIME, ever cursed TIME, decides when it's time to play the game, which none of us know the rules. Sabin.

07-14-2017 10:51:17

kitra :

I would not like clients arriving to my hotel early, snooping around & heating the place up. Hotel staff aren't stupid.

07-12-2017 23:31:08

mike1955 :

Or just sit in your ride and chill till time is up

07-12-2017 05:58:18

omegaboy :

Get a news paper and go to the bar. Sit at a table in the corner to read the paper and have a soft drink so that you don't have alcohol on your breath. No different than showing up for any other professional meeting,

07-10-2017 15:51:52

mzgullables :

Cool t like your say and early encounters are good

07-10-2017 05:11:01

creekside104099 :

If I'm that early I'll stop at nearby hotel/restaurant and have a drink, freshen up, and wait until the time is right to leave. I don't think going to her hotel that early is a good idea. What if you encounter someone you know who is just leaving? Awkward.

07-09-2017 14:40:52

braddark :

Good call on checking the perimeter. Its something I have not done, but maybe I should.

07-08-2017 07:36:43

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